"Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, but today is a gift... that's why they call it the present."

 This is a VERY good question!  Cheryl, I don't envy your position at all.  Definitely a prime example of a "slippery slope" issue.  I am very curioius as to what Mr. Ballan has to say. 

HOWEVER... I know there are exceptions to everything, but I thought Amish were not permitted to drink alcohol for the most part.  So if it were addressed with the Bishop, would it even be an issue?  Just curious...